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What was absolutely obvious to our grandparents is shocking news to the "enlightened" urbanites over at the Boston Globe:
"A germ of truth?" Sounds, rather, that it's a fair summation of the situation. Imagine that: men and women are different? Who would have conceived of such an idea. (Answer: Only every generation in history until the baby boom.) Of course, there's much politically-correct hand-wringing over this unfortunate discovery: "... It may seem ... like rank sexism.... The concept of self-selection sets off alarms for many feminists. It seems to suggest that women themselves are responsible for the gender gap. It can also be an excuse for minimizing the role of social forces." Isn't that an amazing observation? That the idea that women make their own choices should be threatening to the group who claims to be the most pro-woman? Shouldn't they be joyfully embracing the idea that women are now making their own choices, and that it produces a distinctively feminine style and outcome? One which is qualitatively different, but not in any way inferior? If a woman wants to be in IT, let her. Some of my closest friends are women who have plenty of skills in that area. On the other hand, if she has a different preference, let's value that too, okay -- even if it means she "just" wants to be a stay-at-home mom or healthcare professional. "Feminism" often seem to take things women tend to prefer and dismiss them as wrong or trivial or unworthy (wanting a family, frequent social contact, a preference for care-giving, intimacy with commitment) and often seems to communicate that women, or (more indirectly) women's "progress" should be judged by how women to conform to certain stereotypically masculine traits. I sometimes think the movement should have been called "masculinism", not "feminism". Given my last politically incorrect statement perhaps I'll walk gingerly on this one... However, I'm not even sure it should be called masculinism, since masculine traits in men, according to many feminists, should be suppressed, and they should adopt a more "feminine" approach to things. The whole "get in touch with your feminine side" nonsense. Perhaps it should be called antidifferentiationism, or reversalism or something. Posted by: Michael Zappe on May 25, 2008 05:45 PM Somebody (I can't remember who) once said that every revolution creates its own tyrannies. When I was growing up in the 50s, a mother who went out to work if she didn't have to was considered a "lazy" mother. When I stayed home with my son in the 80s and 90s - because I wanted to - I was looked at by some women as lazy because I "didn't work". It's not politically correct (is anybody else as SICK of that term as I am?), but what I think of as Evangelical Feminism strikes me as having a very anti-female undertone. Its disciples seem to have bought the lie at an early age that boys are superior to girls, and believe the only way to overcome this gap is to out-male the males. The only thing I take issue with here is your comment "only every generation until the baby boom". I don't know how old you are, but remember, the baby boom lasted from the late 40s to the early 60s. It's true that the first layer of baby boomers (including myself) did away with a lot of stereotypes, sexual and otherwise, but we still recognized and appreciated gender differences. We just didn't see why they should dictate our destinies. It was the later boomers, those who came of age in the 70s, who fell under the influence of Evangelical Feminism. Posted by: Linda Weatherby on May 25, 2008 11:07 PM Add your two cents...
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I think a better way to approach the topic is to address the disproportionate number of achievements that women have made in sciences like primatology, and then ask the reason for it. Is primatology an inferior or lower-paid science? etc.
I can certainly see why a time of asserting that men and women were 'tabula rasa' was helpful, considering the environment in place around the 1930s.
And I have seen women who wrote articles on slashdot get talked about like they were sexual objects and so on. The environment can certainly be more hostile than other careers at times. But that just isn't the reason that most women make their career choices.
What we really need is a more rigorous standard for determining sexism than just "gender imbalance." But that takes more work and some of the more ideological people just don't want to see it.
I sometimes think the movement should have been called "masculinism", not "feminism".
Heh, no kidding. I had one female friend who was, intellecutally, pretty masculine for a girl. She was into fencing and rock climbing, not highly social and technically skilled. She still ended up being a physical therapist rather than a programmer, say.
Posted by: Ryan W. on May 25, 2008 01:28 PM